You ever seen the Direct TV commercials? You know the ones where one bad idea leads to another bad idea, and that bad idea leads to another? By the end you have totally messed up. The point is simple. One stupid choice in life can have many consequences. It may seem small at first, but what will the long-term effects be?
We all make mistakes. Some of us make more than others. Most people finally grow up in life. I really didn’t start changing my life around until age 25. I look back now and can’t believe the stupid things I did in life. I can’t believe the type of people I considered friends. Those days are over with and I love life more than ever. I love my family and friends more than ever.
Some people however, will never change. They never even try. They always have an excuse of why. “Daddy didn’t love me enough,” they will whine about. “My BFF stole my boyfriend from me,” they will bitch and moan about. Instead of admitting failure they will past the blame off unto others. These people no matter how many mistakes they make will never learn from them.
There’s a bitch in my life now that I can’t understand. She dated a drug-dealer on and off for nearly ten years. She gave up her career dream for this loser. He almost helped her end up in jail for a few years. Did she learn from this? No. She has dated men who beat her, other drug abusers and men that used her for ass and money. Yet she will blame everyone but herself. You can only change if you are willing to change. Stop dating losers and bad things won’t happen, that simple. Sad part is she is now 27 and no signs of improvement.
A few years back she had just wrecked a car. She was abusing pills and heroin that I know about. Who knows what else she was on. She was a pathological liar. She stole money from work. After talking to the girl recently, I see nothing has changed. She claimed all of that is behind her. Really, is that so? Here are facts from what I have witness first-hand.
- 1. She has wrecked another car since the last one.
- 2. Her newest car has already been shot at.
- 3. Her teeth are dirty and nasty.
- 4. She lost tons of weight in a short span.
- 5. She clearly has memory loss.
- 6. She still abuses smoke drugs; I saw this first-hand.
I no longer feel bad for her. Why should I? I have done all I can as a friend. I have no desire in bettering her. If you do stupid things, you deserve horrible things to happen to you. If you hang out with stupid people, expect stupid things to happen to you. Don’t whine or cry about it. You get what you deserve. Cry a river to someone dumb enough to care. I am not that person.
One of her “friends” was some thug-wanna-be loser. He was some “DJ” that thought he would be the next Eminem. He was actually more like Vanilla Ice. He was the kind of guy that acted hard but was a coward. He was some idiot that was afraid of life. He was so chicken shit, he wondered into the woods and left his kid behind, friends and family behind. After disappearing for a couple of days he was found froze to death in the woods. Smart, huh?
(DJ Loser, found dead for what?)
You may say it’s mean to poke fun at his death. I’m not poking fun at his death. He left a baby behind with no father. He gave up on his family. He turned his backs on his friends. He was a coward that took the easy way out of life. He had a job, fiancée and a home. What normal person would do this? I am guessing one that was on something. The fact of the matter is – complete stupidity.
The girl I’ve been talking about above was close friends with him. Here’s my point. Is it a shock she is still ruining her life? When you hang with people this stupid, you are normally as dumb as they are. You do the stupid things that they do. If they use meth, you use meth. If they drink and drive, you drink and drive. If they shoot heroin, so do you. Friends are people you have things with common with. For instance, a Neo-Nazi doesn’t hang out with Jewish guys. A Black Panther doesn’t date a female white skinhead. Bad people normally don’t hang out with decent people.
I am tired of being a nice guy. Don’t get me wrong. I will do anything for my family and friends. I am sick of people who lie and use people. I am sick of people who do stupid things in life and expect you to “high five” them or give them a hug. Sorry, wrong answer. You deserve everything bad that happens to you. This girl deserves to be short on cash, have memory loss and lose stupid friends. You don’t want bad things to happen, stop doing bad things. The end.
(Don’t reenact scenes of Platoon with Charlie Sheen. Also, don’t reenact scenes of Men at Work with Charlie Sheen.)